
She’d started young. At age 3, she was named “Miss Beautiful Baby.” Shortly thereafter, she became a regular –“Bubbles Silverman” — on the Uncle Bob’s Randbow House radio show.
Voted “most likely to succeed” by her high school classmates, she sang everywhere and anywhere before landing a position as “house soprano” at the City Opera of New York in 1955. Her later performance of the aria, “Se Pieta” in Handel’s Julius Ceaser led a New Yorker magazine theatre critic to comment, “If I were recommending the wonders of New York to a tourist, I would place Beverly Sills at the top of the list.” High praise given the vast pool of talent in the “city that never sleeps.”
Not suprisingly, when Sills died in 2007, she was hailed as, “one of this country’s great operatic voices” — a remarkable compliment given that no one had heard her sing at that point in nearly three decades! Rather, in 1980, at the height of her fame, she chose to retire.
“There is a kind of desperation,” she later said, “staying at something too long … and I am not a desperate woman. I wanted people to say, ‘It’s too early,’ rather than, ‘When is that woman ever gonna quit? It was the perfect time to go out — on top.”
In today’s media and influencer saturated world, some might deem Sills’ decision foolish. “Why quit? Why not hang around, make as much ‘bank’ as you can, ride the waves of fame and adulation as long as far as they will carry you?” Heaven knows many in the public eye stick around far longer than their expiration date. For her, however, her commitment to performance excellence trumped any resulting celebrity.
Personally, I admire the choice Sill made. As I age, I’ve found myself wondering more often about when to “hang it up.” It can’t be based on demand, real or perceived. Indeed, there is a kind of conceit in leaving the decision up to others.
Seems to me that exiting at the top of one’s game is even more challenging in the field of therapy where age and experience are believed to confer special advantage. The same may be said of commercial airline pilots — at least, I know I feel more confident when the flight crew trends older than the cast of High School Musical. And yet, given the declines in memory, reasoning, verbal fluency and comprehension skills associated with advancing years, pilots have a mandatory retirement age, a standard applicable across 193 member-nations! Surely, some could continue for longer, but doesn’t that beg the question?
As reviewed here, research on therapists makes clear age and experience confer no advantage and are likely associated with poorer performance (1, 2).
So, what are your criteria?
Until next time,
Scott
Director, International Center for Clinical Excellence

